I think it may have been an orchard spider I had seen, and most likely what my co-worker had run across as well. The orchard spider pics here;
http://fieldandswamp.com/orchard_spiders.htm are similar to the happy face spider from Hawaii seen here;
http://evolution.berkeley.edu/evolibrary/article/_0_0/happyface_03At least with the haze of time they are similar to someone that doesn't know much about spiders to start with

Thanks for helping me out with the ID, sorry I don't really have news of a rare species....